Settling In

We are heading into our 3rd month of calling Alexandria, PA home. And that is what it is starting to feel like "home." We went back to Buffalo about a week ago and I have to say that I didn't feel like I was going home, and when I was in our house there, it no longer felt like home. I can't say that everyone in the family is feeling quite the same way,( and I'll write more about that later) but for Richard and I at least we have found a new home.

It feels more relaxed here, I don't feel like we are keeping up with the Jones's. It feels more like everyone just does their own thing, whatever that is. I love the nature that is all around. The trees, the mountains, all of the water and the wildlife. Richard and I rode the motorcycle the other day and ended up doing a little bit exploring of a nearby state park. It looks like a great place to swim and rent boats in the summer. The kids and I do feel a little weird always seeing people you know, wherever you go around here. It's different- if you go out to eat you'll see a teacher or a classmate. Much more small town feel ( well, duh, huh?) and sometimes I like like I would like to be a bit more anonymous.

I have to say that sometimes I get tired of explaining to people why we live so far out in Alexandria. It's not like it was exactly what we were planning, however, when the time came and with the houses that were available, and the price ranges, and the schools, and a timeline as well as other things- this came down to feeling like the best thing for our family at the time. It can be hard not having things nearby, and I drive 35 minutes to church and about 55 to work. But it has had it's benefits too. Jayna and Andrew have adapted alright, but Whitney has really struggled. My heart aches for her. She is a trooper though and I know she will make it.

Our house is much larger than before, and it's nice for everyone to spread out and have more room. ( Andrew often says it's too big- especially when he is hunting for his shoes!) I love having a formal living room- it is a nice calm space. I was disappointed, but not really surprised, when we had our fireplace inspected and they said it was unsafe to use. However, we found a great candleholder at the thrift store that fits perfectly into our fireplace and holds five small jar candles. It looks great and adds a warm and cozy feel to the room.

Here are a few random pictures:

Baked eyeball casserole- for Halloween of course!

Jayna trying out instruments- she has chosen the trombone and enjoys playing it.

Our backyard

cookout in Buffalo

Jayna dressed as a witch for Halloween.

And so it goes-

Reading now-

Just read- Crime and Punishment- I was hoping for something better as this book ended, but it did make you think. I'm saying maybe 3 stars? I found it to be kind of a tough read-and it took me awhile to get through.